Depression has taken another person from the world. That he was funny and talented doesn’t make it any more or less upsetting. It just means more people know about it — but it happens to others every day.
I’ve never been suicidal, but I have struggled with depression. I know the hopelessness. I know how trapped and alone it can make you feel. I hope it never takes me to darker places than it already has.
All I can do is think about my son. How do I protect him? How do I keep him from feeling the way I have at my lowest? How I keep him from feeling the way I feel today?
The deeply unsatisfying answer is, of course, that I don’t. Not for sure, anyway. I can only do my best — love him, teach him and pick him up when he falls down. And hope that it’s enough.
At this point it’s a little self serving to recommend The Heretic, but I’m going to do it anyway. It’s for entrepreneurs, sure, but it’s not just for entrepreneurs. It’s for anyone who knows there’s always something new learn, something that can be done better.
And I’m honored to be a part of it.
Here’s my latest guest post. This one’s about selling, insights and the magic that can happen when you get it right.
I used say that “fight the inertia” should be my mantra. I get stuck in ruts and patterns too easily. I need to break out of those and try new things, even if it’s just turning off the TV and getting off the couch.
That’s still true, but thanks to my good friend Pascal, I now have a new mantra: “Trust yourself more.”
It’s infinitely scarier and more challenging, but that’s what makes it so great.
I recently wrote a guest post for Pascal Finette‘s excellent newsletter for entrepreneurs, The Heretic.
It’s about branding, voice and having something to say. And also gerbils.
Check it out and let me know what you think in the comments or on Twitter.
There were a couple of comments on my last post asking if about:pixels is on Planet Mozilla. Unfortunately, Planet has a policy against team or group blogs being added to their feed. The policy also states that “rare exceptions” can be made, so I’ve asked whether this could be one of those. Stay tuned.
I’m going to start using about:pixels, the Mozilla creative team blog, for work-related posts, including this one about localizing our brands.
Expect the regular smattering of completely irregular updates here.
Life’s too long for you to get it wrong
— Annie, “I Know UR Girlfriend Hates Me”
Questionable capitalization and novelty spelling aside, “I Know UR Girlfriend Hates Me” by Norwegian singer Annie is actually a pretty great pop song. (I know, there goes all my music cred.) Even beyond that, though, it contains one of my favourite song lyrics ever. While everyone and everything — books, movies, parents, fortune cookies, graffiti — tends to remind us how short life is, here we get the other perspective: Life is just too long to live with a bad decision or something that isn’t right anymore.
And now that I write that, I fear people might be jumping to the wrong conclusion, so let me get to the point quickly: I hit my one-year anniversary at Mozilla back in March and it made me realize — as I often do — how happy I am to be here and that applying for this position was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
The bad situation I’m referring to was my previous job, which started off fantastic, but gradually changed until it was no longer the right place for me. Leaving that behind would have been the right decision regardless, but the fact that I ended up here just highlights how wrong it would have been to stay.
The last year — and a bit now — has been an amazing ride. I can’t believe it’s already been that long. On the other hand, I can’t believe it’s only been that long. The time has gone by so quickly, in some ways I feel like I’m just finally getting caught up and starting to click with everyone, but I’ve also learned and done so much that it feels like I’ve been here for years.
Of course, there’s another side to this coin: When you make the right decision, life goes right back to being too short again.